Cheap and easy to obtain heroin was the beginning of the end. Twice he robbed me of all my possessions – even my car, 1 eight month stint in state jail during which I visited with his daughter every weekend and upon release I brought him home only to be robbed again. 3 failed attempts in recovery centers after which he and his girlfriend abandoned their children leaving them with me for 4 years with no contact of any kind. At 32 yoa he is now unable to remain out of the county jails for more than a week at a time. I'm done.