As a non religious man, dating a muslim girl, (4 years in a few days) this thread makes me very depressed. Her family is not very very strict in the stereotypical way, but they definitely wouldn't accept me. I'm not willing to break her relationship with her parents since she loves them very much. At the same time, she basically saved my life and I just don't picture myself being able to move on from her. She feels the same, but we don't know what to do. We said we would decide after she finishes medical school. Hopefully we find a way.