In retrospect, I was a little reckless in both username selection and comment replies.
Multiple attempts at blackmail, people not believing I was the male and trying to get more nudes/personal videos and threatening to tell my boss. I'm an electrician that works for a family owned company, my boss doesn't care. Lucky, I guess.
Affected new relationships, past relationships, the occasional stranger. Once someone local finds out, they share, it spreads.
I deleted as much of my content as I could about two weeks ago, we'll see how it goes.