They each have a daughter from a past relationship. Her daughter lives with them and gets everything under the sun. His daughter is treated like an outsider when she has visits (both girls are 4, they were supposed to each get a tablet for Christmas, so I bought them each a tablet case as their gift. It wasn’t until Christmas morning that I realized the gfs daughter was the only one to get the tablet..) More often than not when his visit with his daughter is approaching, the gf picks fights with him and he ends up not getting his daughter. If it’s not a scheduled visit for the guy and his daughter, the gf picks fights on Thursdays or fridays, they break up for the weekend, then she comes crawling back on Sunday night. (This usually happens immediately after HE pays all of their bills). Now they have a child together and she made him quit his well paying job with benefits to stay home with the baby so she could waitress. He decided to go to school part time, (an hour commute) and she refuses to take care of their daughter on her days off, so he had to leave school. I’ve also recently learned that even though she gets $1100/month in family allowance, plus her pay & tips and his parental leave they never have any money for buy for their baby, and I’ve learned the reason for this is she has a coke habit..
He is my brother and when I try to explain things to him and tell him he needs out, he fights with me and calls me crazy and I’m the reason for all his stress. ?